Sova

1. We're not always honest with our Ob-Gyns

Being honest with your doctor may be uncomfortable, but skipping information can actually affect your health. Trust us, they've heard it all before. So come clean about your periods, your sexual history, if you're stressed or fatigued, or any questions you have.

2. We're too self-conscious to bare it all

Being confident when you're naked is not as easy as just taking off your clothes. But nudity, whether you're alone or with a partner, is absolutely nothing to feel ashamed of. Build your naked confidence by first focusing on the body parts you love – whether it's your eyes or your thighs. When you look in the mirror, say something positive about your favorite features. Second, stop complaining about your body to your friends, your mom, and especially your partner. Lastly, give yourself mandatory "naked time" daily. Put on your makeup, shop for new shoes online or watch your favorite sitcom in the buff.

3. We're mortified when someone spies our sex toys

So you forgot to put your favorite toy away, and your mother-in-law spotted it on the nightstand. Remember that your mother-in-law isn't a virgin, and probably has some wild stories to tell about her sexual escapades in and out of the bedroom.

4. We fear rejection, so we don't ask for what we want in bed

It's time to start taking control of your own pleasure. Whether you're afraid you'll come off as too pushy, or you're just plain embarrassed, we know that asking for what you want can be scary. But it's the only way to get results. Try practicing by standing up in other areas of your life and saying what you want, without complaining about what you're not getting. In the bedroom, be specific and keep in mind that your partner is not a mind reader.

There are many reasons for a low sex drive; it's not caused by one thing. It can be a physical issue, a mental issue or a combination of both. If you're having a difficult time getting in the mood, first understand that it's okay. If it's causing you distress, try one of these five tips to help boost your sex drive.

6. We can't always control our bladders

Believe it or not, stress incontinence during sexual activity is more common in younger women than older women, according to Amy Rosenman, MD at UCLA Medical Center. The problem is related to your pelvic floor muscles, so experts recommend strengthening them through Kegel exercises. Check out Step 2 of the Sova Sexercise Workout Guide for a helpful how-to guide.

7. Sometimes our "Big O" is a "Big NO"

With only half of women reporting orgasms during intercourse, this is certainly something women need to stop judging themselves about and start focusing on what happens in bed. Try to remember that sex is about an enjoyable journey just as much or more than it is about the destination. Concentrate on great foreplay and being present in the moment.

8. We make funny noises

If everyone hears "funny" noises and sounds during sex why is it so taboo to talk about? Bottom line, sex can be noisy. You can ignore it and move on, laugh it off or try changing sexual positions. Regardless of how you address it, there's no need to feel worried or embarrassed about it.

9. We like to watch porn, a lot

If you're interested in watching porn online, you're part of a growing female minority. It's not just for the boys anymore, 30% of Internet pornography viewers are now women. Also, a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research found that "female pornography use was positively associated with female sexual quality." So not only are you not alone in enjoying erotica, it may actually improve your sex life.

10. We feel we need to hide our tiger stripes

Consider stretch marks badges of courage. They are a celebration of the life you've lived and the children you've born. Love your lines!