THE MUST DO'S
An Erotic Picture's Worth...: It should come as no surprise that men are strongly aroused by "visual cues." As Dr. Leon F. Seltzer states in his series on sexual desire "As soon as the lust-inspiring image registers in their brain, they become turned-on-not only physically but psychologically, too." So women, if you want to turn on your man, snap a quick pic in the morning when you're getting dressed or stepping out of the shower. It may make his morning commute a lot more enjoyable.
Story Time: Women may want suggestive texts from their partners without them being explicit. Men, tell your partner what you want to do to her when she gets home from a long day at work. "For women there is a need for a plot -- hence the romance novel. It is more about the anticipation, how you get there; it is the longing that is the fuel for desire."
Send And Delete: Delete photos from your phone, from the cloud, from your hard drive, from wherever they're saved. The last thing you want is unwanted access to the photos.
Double, Triple, Quadruple Check: Check to make sure you're sending to the right phone number. Double-check to make sure you're not replying to a group text. Triple-check that you're sending a direct message, not a public message. Quadruple-check just for good measure!