Feeling sexier isn't always about attraction. It's about self-confidence and feeling comfortable in your own skin. The confidence to wear a bikini on the beach, ask your boss for a raise or tell your partner about your secret bedroom fantasies. Need a kick start to bring your sexy back? Here are 5 easy ways for you to feel sexier and boost your confidence today.
Is your regular nighttime attire grey sweatpants and a baggy t-shirt? When was the last time your bra actually matched your panties? What's stopping you from splurging on a new lacy bra and panty set or sexy lingerie for yourself? You deserve to feel sexy, and not just in the bedroom! Lingerie may be a treat for your partner but it can also remind yourself that there's no reason why you can't feel sexy all the time.
On second thought, forget the panties completely! Whether it's sleeping in the nude or slipping off your panties on a dinner date, you're sure to feel instantly sexier free buffing it.
There's nothing like a little recreational flirting with the cute barista at your favorite coffee shop to boost your confidence. So give that well-dressed guy in the elevator a quick smile or just start up a conversation with a friend of a friend at a party. Just be sure to stay away from flirting at work and don't let it go too far unless, of course, you're both single.
Sexy Is A State Of Mind
Feeling sexy is more than just a physical sensation, it's also about your state of mind. Why not use erotic literature to increase your arousal1? Try reading a steamy story and see where your imagination takes you. Erotic literature is inexpensive and doesn't require a partner. You may even poach a few ideas to try.
It's hard to feel sexy when you're answering emails, folding laundry and helping the kids with homework all at the same time. Make time on your schedule for yourself. Look at it this way: you depend on your car to get you where you need to go everyday so you take care of it. If you make time for an oil change because it's that important, why can't you nurture the very part of you that makes you feel like a woman. If you take care of the core parts of you, the mundane parts of daily life will be much easier to manage.